What dogs teach us

Niki
November 24, 2025

If you’ve ever trained, lived, or simply shared everyday life with a dog, you already know: they are always teaching us something. At OneMind Dogs, our entire method was created by listening to the lessons dogs were trying to give us. Tekla, the deaf Border Collie who inspired our approach, showed us that dogs understand the world through body language first and words second. Once we learned to truly listen, everything changed.

And the best part? Learning from our dogs never ends. Every run, every walk, every quiet moment gives them a chance to show us something new.

When we asked our community, “What has your dog taught you?”, their answers were a beautiful reminder of why we do what we do, and why this method works for every team, from brand-new beginners to lifelong agility handlers.

Below are some of the lessons our community shared, in their own words.

Dogs teach us to be clear

So many handlers discover early on that dogs respond to clarity, not complexity. They teach us to plan, focus, and commit.

Greta shared a lesson many beginners experience:
“I have to be laser focused on my plan. If there are options I have to decide what way I will handle and commit as even a half second hesitation on my part can cause him frustration.”

Dogs don’t do things wrong on purpose. They simply follow the information that they see. And often, that information comes from us without us even realising.

Sheila noticed this with her teammate too:
“The biggest thing my dog taught me is that she wants connection and for my cues to come early!”

When she adjusted her timing, everything changed.

Watch the video bellow to see what Pravina from South Africa learned from dogs:

Dogs teach us to communicate with our bodies

OneMind Dogs was born from the idea that dogs already understand us, we just need to learn to speak their language. Karen learned this deeply while working with her deaf dog, Skye:

“My biggest lesson; you really do not need verbals, and your dog is your best coach. Body language is all you need.”

She also shared how this transformed the way she understands teams on course:

“I now easily see where other teams go wrong when they give a verbal to the dog and their body gives the opposite cue.”

Dogs never lie about what they see. They respond honestly, and understanding that honesty makes us better.

Dogs teach us to trust the process

As Sheri put it simply and beautifully:
“With better understanding and skills learned via the One Mind Dogs method… my sensitive/less drivey/less confident English Springer Spaniel Missy has become more confident and has blossomed due to clearer handling by me!”

When we become clearer, our dogs become braver.

They don’t need us to be perfect. They just need us to be consistent.

Dogs teach us to pay attention

Sometimes our dogs give us very subtle messages. When we learn to read them, we grow as handlers.

Mike’s story is a perfect example:
“Just by listening to her I have improved the validity and use of Connect, Commit and Cue.”

He watched his dog struggle in the weaves one day, only to realise she was showing him that the poles were set up incorrectly.

“Paying attention to what your dog is trying to tell you is important. They are usually right.”

This is the heart of dog-perspective training: your dog is communicating with you long before you say a word.

Learn more about the dog’s perspective in our free online course “Method 1: It’s all about the dog’s perspective“.

Dogs teach us that connection matters more than results

Agility is a sport, but for many of us, it’s also a joy, a partnership, a moment of shared flow.

Linda & Spritzer summed this up perfectly:
“Spritzer has taught me that qualifying scores do not really matter! A WIN for us is the fun time when we are in the ring playing together as a team.”

When you run with connection, the results take care of themselves. But even when they don’t, the run is still a win.

Dogs teach us that we can always grow

One of the most powerful lessons from our community came from Pip:
“It has been liberating to know that when things go wrong it is something that I can fix. I just need to find out what I did wrong.”

This is the foundation of the OneMind Dogs method. Your dog isn’t giving you a hard time, they’re giving you information. When you learn to listen, everything becomes possible.

And sometimes, they simply teach us how to live

Linda offered a short but perfect reminder:
“Attack all tasks with enthusiasm.”

If there’s anything dogs do better than us, it’s bringing their whole heart to whatever is in front of them.

What has your dog taught you?

Every dog has something to teach. Every dog already understands us far better than we think. And every handler can learn to see the world through their dog’s eyes.

That’s the journey we’re here for.

If you want to learn from your dog too, start your OneMind Dogs journey at www.oneminddogs.com.

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